Posted by: James McDonald | April 28, 2009

A Step Toward Winning the Battle – Loving Each Other Amid Differences

The post I put up last night troubled me throughout the night. As I considered the advance of Islam in Europe and North America, I pondered the state of the Church. Christianity is rapidly declining in Europe. And America is close behind. Of course, part of the problem is that we are not bringing our children up to embrace a Christian worldview. As has been reported time and again, denomination after denomination has found that young adults who have been brought up in Christian homes are leaving the church in droves. This must be addressed.

And as we saw in the video, we are having fewer children. The result is not just fewer people to purchase merchandise and expand the economy, but fewer Christians.

Then there is another problem: Factions and schisms within the church. Islam has few “denominations.” For the most part, it is one religion – with one mission. And the fulfillment of this mission overrides the differences in the few factions of Islam.

But not with Christianity. I am not saying we should all run back to Rome and pray for a Charles Martel, but should we not strive to achieve the unity for the sake of the Great Commission instead of arguing over petty differences? Too often, instead of seeking to win the lost and teach the Truth, we spend our time tearing down our own brothers and sisters—Christ’s own Body.

For where there are envy, strife, and divisions among you, are you not carnal and behaving like mere men? For when one says, “I am of Paul,” and another, “I am of Apollos,” are you not carnal? (1 Corinthians 3:3-4)

Our situation reminds me of a story from the life of David. When David was a young lad Israel was at war with the Philistines. And the situation looked bleak. David was sent by his father to the front to take supplies to his brothers. When David arrived, he heard of the trouble and of the blasphemous Goliath. And David’s passion for the Lord swelled—he wanted to get into the battle.

Upon hearing of his brother’s boldness, Eliab, the eldest brother, chided David. He questioned his motives. He questioned his qualifications.

But David’s reply was simple – “Is there not a cause?” You can read all about this in 1 Samuel 17.

We have denominations for a reason. Of course, they are in a way scandalous. Jesus, in His high priestly prayer in the Gospel of John, prayed that we would be one. He noted that this unity, this oneness, would testify of Jesus’ deity and of His Lordship over all.

But what do we do with divisions? What do we do with disagreements? What do we do with differences?

John Piper wrote a short, but powerful article on this topic recently. I encourage everyone to seriously consider his words…


1. Avoid gossip
The New Testament warns against gossiping. The Greek word translated “gossip” means whisper or whisperer. In other words, the focus is not on the falsehood of the word but on the fact that it needs to be surreptitious. It is not open and candid and forthright. It has darkness about it. It does not operate in the light of love. It is not aiming at healing. It strokes the ego’s desire to be seen as right without playing by the rules of love. For I fear that perhaps when I come I may find…that perhaps there may be quarreling, jealousy, anger, hostility, slander, gossip, conceit, and disorder. (2 Corinthians 12:20)

2. Identify evidences of grace in each other and speak them to each other and about each other about that grace.
The church in Corinth was deeply flawed. But Paul found reason to thank God for them because of “the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus” (1 Corinthians 1:4). The most flawed pastor on this staff—and we are all flawed—is a work of grace. It honors Christ, and keeps criticism in perspective, to see it and say it often. 

3. Let’s speak criticism directly to each other if we feel the need to speak to others about it.
The point is not that we will always agree on everything, especially the practical application of shared principles. Paul’s word in Romans 12:18 is, “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” It may not be possible, but we should try.

4. Let’s look for, and assume, the best motive in the other’s viewpoint, especially when we disagree.
When Paul deals with disagreement in Romans 14, one of the things he appeals to is that those with opposite practical convictions have identical heart-motives. “The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God” (Romans 14:6). Christ-honoring passions, Paul says, can unite us in spite of differences of application.

5. Think often of the magnificent things we hold in common.
“But may all who seek you rejoice and be glad in you; may those who love your salvation say continually, “Great is the Lord!” (Psalm 40:16) To mention a few things we hold in common: the Elder Affirmation of Faith, the sovereignty of God, the supremacy of his glory in all things, the majesty and meekness of Christ, the all-sufficiency of his saving work, the precious and very great promises summed up in Romans 8:28 and 8:32, the value and sweetness of the Bible, the power and patience of the Holy Spirit in transforming us, the hope of glory, a profound biblical vision of manhood and womanhood, a common global mission to see the nations know Christ

6. Let’s be more amazed that we are forgiven than that we are right.
And in that way, let’s shape our relationships by the gospel. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you…. And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us. (Ephesians 4:32-5:2) “The one who is forgiven little loves little” (Luke 7:47). In other words, think more of your own sins and how amazing it is that God saved you than you do about the other person’s flaws.


Great words, Pastor Piper.

And now, dear friends, is there not a cause? Let us pray that the Lord raise up Charles Martels in each home, those who will defend the faith. May we all be part of the army of the Lord, armed not with swords of steel, but with the Sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God.


Responses

  1. This is a very difficult subject. It is true that Christians should be unified, but where do you draw the line between denominations and religions. There are many different categories:

    Christian Denominations

    Baptists
    Presbyterians

    Other Religions

    Roman Catholics
    Jehovah’s Witnesses
    “Christian” Scientists

    Borderline

    In addition, there are other belief groups that are on the border. Armenians, for example, might or might not be Christians. True Armenians are not Christians, but confused Armenians could be.

    Conclusion

    To sum it up, I agree with you that Christians should be unified, but who are Christians? The road to Rome is a popular but deadly path to destruction.

    Thanks,
    Nate

  2. PS I am subscribed to the comments and will reply if I am not to busy and the conversation does not become a flame war.

  3. Hi Nate,

    I am specifically talking about the orthodox Christian faith – as defined in the Word of God and summarized in documents such as the Nicene Creed.

    Oh – spell check always messes this up, but I think you meant to say Arminians, not Armenians.

    Personally, I think the terms Augustinian, Pelagian, and Semi-Pelagian make more sense in defining a Christian. A Pelagian would not be able to endorse the Nicene Creed, as they do not see Jesus’ sacrifice as necessary. There’s is a man-centered, works-based salvation. However, a Semi-Pelagian and Augustinian would endorse the Creed.

    I hope this helps.

  4. Hi James,

    Thanks for the clarification. I expected that was what you meant, but I could not tell from the post.

    Thanks,
    Nate

  5. Maybe it is the abundance of knowledge these days that is causing this downward trend in Christianity. The church held a monopoly on information and knowledge for centuries, and now anyone can seek it out freely. This has resulted in increased critical thinking skills (weeding through the many perspectives to find the best and most objectively sensible one), which might be responsible for decline in religious followers.

    Now that people can learn more about the world, they can see how discordant religion is to reality. Islam flourishes only in communities and societies that silence dissent and force ignorance. Islam fades within a generation or two of emigrating to a more open society. Same was true of Christianity, as we can see today.

    This should trouble you and cause you to carefully consider why you would devote your life to a belief that is at odds with reality, rather than attempt to outbreed the Muslims.

  6. Thanks for this post. The state of the church in America today is concerning, I believe the same spirit of rugged individualism that played such a large role in the birth of this country has also fostered quite a bit of Protestant division over the centuries. These days, people have split over things like worship music, or whether or not the church changes venues. There is often precious little humility in evidence during times like these, precious little desire to elevate the interests of others above one’s own interests. How much more likely is division, then, when earnest and sincere Christians have honest differences in doctrine? This is why I believe the family reformation concept that you and others are advancing is so critical to the church today, because it provides a model and a possible solution. A longer-term one, to be sure, but as John Wesley said, “Give me 100 men, filled with the Holy Spirit, and I will take all of England for the Lord.” How much more, then for hundreds and thousands of Godly families?

  7. Sir,

    For over a year now I have regularly perused your site and that of Mrs. McDonald because I have found so much of interest and so much which seems good. I know that many of the various Protestant groups hold Catholicism (I was baptized as a Catholic) with suspicion and perhaps fear, and one comment here even suggests Catholics are not Christians. Sir, I am at present living until November in a country which has experienced a great deal of Muslim Immigration which will very likely change the very face of this particular country, and I beg of you to see that this division divides and allows for conquest. Regardless of what Evangelical Christians may feel, the risen Christ is central to Catholics, although it is true that the Mother of Christ is specifically revered, as Catholics believe that He Himself ordained this. Mistrust, fear, suspicion and good old fashioned dislike for historical reasons will divide Christians even more and that, combined with devastating demiographics is the road to a disaster, the beginnings of which I am seeing all around me. Please be assured of my sincere good wishes in writing this and I thank you for much pleasure in reading your posts.

  8. Hi Paula,

    I will pray for you, especially in your challenging situation.

    With regard to Roman Catholics, I know many who live Christianity better than evangelicals. I count many personal friends. And, although only the Lord knows for sure, I can say my friends are indeed Christians.

    Certainly, there are many differences between Roman and Protestant doctrines. To me, one of the greatest is in the area of soteriology – the doctrine of our salvation. The Bible is clear – we are saved only by grace, only by faith, only by Jesus, and God alone deserves the glory.

    That being said, I see my Roman friends as Christians. There are many in the Roman church who are alive in Christ. And there are many in Protestant churches who have an empty profession – their lives show no fruit, no joy.

    You are welcome here Paula. And may the Lord richly bless you.

  9. Thank you for inspiring words! Especially the guidelines put forth from Pastor John Piper. They serve to remind us of the proper conduct of Christians. This has been especially helpful for me today, since lately I have struggled with in-law issues. Perfect timing! I will repent, grieve, and try to do better. God’s blessings!

  10. James,
    Great post. As my wise pastor says ” not all divisions are bad and all unity is not good”…..Unity within the body of Christ is something our Lord truly does desire…. but can I be unified with those who are teaching or preaching something contrary to God’s revealed word? That is where it gets sticky. It makes me sad to see disunity in the Body of Christ. I attend a small country church on gravel road in a rural community….. it is non denominational, no creeds but Christ, where the Bible is taught. Down the road from us, literally a few miles away is another little church with similar beliefs, that are completely sold out for Christ. I have asked my pastor why do we not meet together? Why are we in seperate buildings? I don’t understand.

    I come from a Mormon backround, that in reality is very unified and all churches basically teach and preach the same and do things the same way. When I received salvation and left the LDS I was perplexed at the many different denominations and beliefs. Is not the Bible so very clear? Why are we divided? I don’t understand.

    I do understand some Christian churches are not teaching God’s word. Our local Methodist church has female pastors and embraces homosexuality. I think Charles Weslely must be turning over in his grave! I see the concerns my pastor has with churches that have strayed from Biblical christianity. At the same time there are many wonderful congregrations out there that DO teach the truth — and why are we not unified and meeting for fellowship together?

    Do you think sometimes it may be an issue of pride with pastors wanting to have their “own” flock? I know you are a pastor, so maybe you can expand on that for me….. Is not Jesus the sheperd? Why the divisions?

    I don’t understand, and as a new Christian is can be a bit perplexing. I keep hoping that my little church and the church down the road will join together.

    One can hope?

    God bless,
    gloria

  11. Hi Gloria,

    Briefly, the challenge is in the area of doctrine. All churches have doctrine – even those who claim “doctrine divides.” There are some areas that are distinctives for a denomination, such as what we have with the CPC. All true pastors should hold to what they believe to be true. That said, sadly, there are times when Christians are divided over things that are purely superficial. It is a sad thing to see, but competition and pride may also be problems between churches at times.

    There is no easy answer to all this. We know the Lord is sovereign, that the church is His bride, and that He is able to work, even in this situation, to bring glory to His name.

    Hang in there, Gloria. Stand for what is right. And seek to live at peace.

    In Him,


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