Originally written Sep 25, 2007. I am reposting this in honor of dear friends whose little one went to be with Jesus. We love you Bryan and Kim…
Matthew 19:14: But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of heaven.”
As some of you know, I am preaching through the Book of Ecclesiastes. One of the common themes of this book is a reminder of the fleeting nature of life. This message is particularly poignant as I type.
Today, I have heard from two families relating heartbreaking news. Both households suffered miscarriages. The hopes and dreams that accompany the news that the Lord has opened the womb and brought new life disappear like the morning mist on a cool lake. In their place, pain and grief have understandably come. Yet also, these families understand that God is sovereign and that His love and mercy never fail.
Stacy and I have suffered through the complex emotions following a miscarriage ourselves. We know how impossible it is to understand the reasons why the Lord gives life – and then so quickly calls the child to Himself. Yet we also know that the Lord has His own purpose for all He does.
As I reflected on the loss experienced by these two families, I remembered a story from the life of the great reformer Martin Luther. In September 1542, his 13-year-old daughter Magdalene, lay dying. As Martin watched her life slip away, Luther prayed, “I love her very much, but dear God, if it be Thy will to take her, I submit to Thee.” He then leaned over and softly spoke to her, “Magdalene, my dear little daughter, would you like to stay here with your father, or would you willingly go to your Father yonder?” I can only imagine how Luther’s heart must have struggled with both sorrow and joy as she replied, “Darling father, as God wills.”
In tears, Luther again turned to the Lord in prayer saying, “I love her very much; if my flesh is so strong, what can my spirit do? God has given no bishop so great a gift in a thousand years as He has given me in her. I am angry with myself that I cannot rejoice in heart and be thankful as I ought.” With tears in his eyes, Luther fell down at Magdalene’s death bed and prayed through bitter tears that the Lord would free his dear daughter from her pain. She then fell asleep in her father’s arms, and woke up in the arms of her Savior.
As her empty body was laid down into the coffin, Luther said in confident hope, “Darling Lena, you will rise and shine like a star, yea, like the sun. I am happy in spirit, but the flesh is sorrowful and will not be content, the parting grieves me beyond measure. I have sent a saint to Heaven.”
Friends, please pray for our brothers and sisters who have suffered the loss of children this week. Pray that they would be confident in their faith, in the sovereignty of God, and that the Lord would bring peace to their hurting souls.
And, for all of us, may we thank the Lord for the gift of life and for the immeasurable blessing of children.












